By forgiving someone, we release ourselves of their control over us. We regain the power we once had over our own lives. Forgiveness is not about the other. It is about the self. It does not excuse, condone, or provide restitution. It does not justify, it does not enable. It does not sanction, nor does it approve. Forgiveness is perfectly selfish. Forgiveness is cold. That is why it is the best dish to serve.
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